People have to communicate with each other every day. The interlocutors do not always have a calm, compliant character and understand each other perfectly. There are moments of conflict that are not easy to avoid.
Subsequently, they affect the quality of the conversation.
If a person wants to find a common language with everyone or to establish spoiled relationships, he needs to be able to understand the psychology of communication and read books on psychological topics.
The art of communication is not difficult to learn on your own. Communication books will help in this matter.
As a rule, they are written by experienced psychologists who have been studying problems in relationships between people and communication issues for many years.
Interpersonal books have stood the test of time. The works not only did not get lost among other genres but also became bestsellers. Readers choose this or that work depending on their specific problems. However, in any book, you can find interesting information that will come in handy at some point in your life.
Lee Lefever “The Art of Explaining. How to make everyone understand you perfectly “
In the course of communication, a person often has to explain to the interlocutor what he thinks. True, this can be difficult to do. Lee Lefevere’s book tells readers how to express their thoughts in an accessible form for the audience. The author defines such a concept as an explanation.
Says what the essence of the explanation is and what is not. The tips presented on the pages of this literary work will help to attract attention and interest people in your problem. Formulate thoughts correctly during normal conversation.
The book contains many examples and is easy and quick to read.
Sergey Deryabo “The Grandmaster of Communication”
This book on the psychology of communication with people tells you how to speak correctly with interlocutors and make others believe in the significance of your words. The literary work is well illustrated; it contains many examples and understandable explanations.
The author describes the most important problems in communicating with people. Information on many of the issues described cannot be found in other sources.
How to please people, find a common language with them, be able to listen to them, and understand body language – all these issues are discussed in detail on the pages of S. Deryabko’s literary work.
James Borg “Secrets of Communication. The magic of the word “
Success at work, in business, a small discussion can be achieved if you choose the right words. With the help of ordinary phrases, you can create real miracles. However, you need to know the magic words that will have a magical effect on the interlocutor.
On the simple rules of communication that make anyone a virtuoso of communication, this is the best book on the psychology of communication by James Borg. In it, the author tells how to learn how to correctly formulate your own thoughts, as well as how to go from empty chatter to a serious conversation.
With the help of the recommendations described in this work, you can improve your communication skills.
Karen Pryor “Don’t growl at the dog!”
As the writer herself claims, this book is about training people, animals, and yourself. The work presents an interesting method of communicating with people. It is based on positive reinforcement.
The author recommends using these techniques in communication with people:
· rewards;
· praise;
· gifts;
· compliments.
With these methods, you can easily achieve the desired result. Not everyone will like the methods that the author offers for training animals.